It is no one else’s responsibility to fill your cup. Not your family, not your friends, not your partner. YOU!
And yeah, you could play the victim and say that sucks! But I don’t know about you, who wants to be a victim?? As much as the victim gets attention and pitty, it’s not a sustainable energy to live in. It exhausts you, it takes from those around you and does not provide a long term happiness that we are all hoping to experience.
You wanna meet your life from WHOLENESS. You wanna meet as one with yourself. You wanna exist in the world as someone who is so deliciously whole on your own that everything and every ONE else that comes into your life is just that amazing extra thing! When half’s come together you just create co-dependancy. You create an existence where you are always being pulled back and forth between energies that want to surge forward but can easily be pulled back. So your number one priority is to fall in love with YOU!
But how good is that!?
And when wholes come together and they partner up and walk towards their own mountains……. holy crap!
Trust the process, love the teachers that show you want you do and don’t want to allow and experience. Hold space, forgiveness and unconditional love for every messy, emotional and uncertain moment along that journey that will lead you to your own wholeness. And the universe will always, and in ALL WAYS, line up the rest.